Tuesday, 12 July 2016

Money and friendship

                                       Money and friendship


Friendship is the most beautiful thing in the whole wide world. Money, on the
other hand, is the most essential thing in the whole wide world. So, while
dealing with these two very important and sensitive things, one has to be very
careful. Before giving my opinion about the topic, I would like to discuss with
you some of the reasons which can harm the friendship and some which do not
harm friendship.


Friendship is a relationship based on give and take. So, as long as there is both
give and take, I don't think there would be any fear of harming the friendship.
Some things to be kept in mind while borrowing money are- 1. Borrow money
from a friend who is financially stable and doesn't mind sharing some bucks
with you. 2. Return the money before deadline, even earlier if possible. 3. Do
not make borrowing a habit. If these things are followed any good friend will
be happy to help and the relationship will also be not hurt. After all, a friend in
need is a friend indeed.


Some of the things that may hurt the friendship are- 1. Choosing a wrong friend
to borrow money. Some people do not like lending money to anyone. Such
people will lend the money if a friend asks for it. But then, they become very
nosey and keep nagging the friend asking him to pay back. This attitude is very
unhealthy for a good friendship. 2. Making borrowing a habit. There are some
people who make borrowing a habit. It is ok to borrow money once or twice or
when there is real need for money. If borrowing keeps continuing, it becomes
very annoying and thus harm friendship, because, too much is always too bad.
3. Not returning the money on time. It is possible that you lend money to a
friend because he was in need of money. As a good friend it is his responsibility
to return the money as promised, because you may be having some other plans
and be counting on that money. So delay in paying back (especially when the
donor is in need), can be harmful to friendship.


Life is like a turning wheel. What goes up should come down. So we can never
say when we could be in need of money and friends. So I think we should help
real friends who are in need of money. We can also borrow money from good
friends, but be careful in choosing the correct friend and keep up the trust.
As far as my opinion about the topic goes, I think borrowing money can ruin a
good friendship. There are friends who say that nothing can come in-between
them and they would do anything for friendship. But such ideas are only good
in stories. In real world, money is a very important factor and can influence any
kind of person. So chances of hurting a relationship is very high. I think
"Friendship is like a golden chain. Once broken, can be mend again. But the
scar still remains". So it is not worth to take a chance with the "highly
influential money" and ruin an otherwise long-lasting friendship.

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